What kind of questions should a Christian ask on a first date?
Hi Christian Dater;
When a Christian decides to date, it is very important that the person is personally clear about their purpose for dating. Are you dating to have some fun? Are you dating to just have someone to hang out with? Are you dating whosoever is interested in you to pass the time until the right one comes along? Are you dating in anticipation of getting married? Please understand, dating for any other reason than to get married is VERY DANGEROUS and I do not recommend it!
It’s very important that a person learns themselves, becomes comfortable with who they are, and allow the Power of God to heal past hurts before they start dating. Failure to do so can cause much pain, disappointment and some consequences you are stuck with for the rest of your life. Worse of all, it still may not fulfill your purpose for dating in the first place.
But to answer your question Anonymous, I believe you should ask the other person what is their purpose for dating. It doesn’t have to be the first question, but it should definitely be A question. All other inquiries should fall into the categories that are important to you. For example: spirituality, family, education, work, hobbies, likes and dislikes. You do not have to get all your questions answered on the first date; and do not ask a question you are not prepared to answer.
In the meantime, I pray you find Joy in all the wonderfulness that is the Lord, and that you take full advantage of ALL the opportunities your single season avails to you.
Thanks for submitting your question.
May God bless you with Wisdom, Knowledge and Understanding!
Joy to the World